The Abraham Family’s Journey to Russia to Bring Home Their Daughter

November 2, 2009

11 Months

Fall colors are at their peak in our yard and Lexi has been with us for eleven months now. I can't believe that our one year Family Day anniversary is coming soon! She has grown so much in so many ways. She's a little ball of fire with the sweetest disposition! The other day, Liam asked me if I wanted Lexi to grow up. I told him that as much as I love Lexi as she is now, I am excited to see her become a big girl. To that Liam said, "But, I don't want her to ever grow up because she is the cutest baby I know." I thought that was just too sweet, especially from Liam who was the 'baby" of the family before Lexi.

Liam is full of interesting observations though. He was hanging out by my computer with me recently while I was scanning through a few of my favorite blogs and clicking on all the photos. After a few minutes, Liam said that he is beginning to think Russian children are the most beautiful in the whole world. I certainly can't argue with that!

Lexi's 2 year check-up is this week. I've had to reschedule it a few times due to illness. Not hers, thankfully, but everyone else in our house. We were fighting the H1N1 Flu (all except Lexi and Martin) one at a time. That was no fun, but (knock on wood) we are all well now. Anyway, I can't wait to see how much taller she is now and where she falls on the growth charts.

Ready for school this morning. Her new backpack is almost as big as she is.
I love the reflection in the glass doors of our trees and the beautiful blue sky we've been blessed with today.


She couldn't resist a quick little bike ride before loading up!


Time to invest in some cute bows... Lexi's hair has a mind of its own!

October 20, 2009

Breaking News!

Lexi will now (albeit reluctantly) wear a bow in her hair without yanking it out within the first 5 seconds! She set a new record on Sunday by wearing a small purple bow for 5 hours straight! Whoohoooo!!!

And check out the shoes! Yep, that's right. See ya next summer Pink Crocks!



Thanks to everyone for sending me suggestions about how to handle Lexi's obsession with her pink Crocks. When it seemed like nothing would ever work, I decided to videotape her reaction to putting on a different pair of shoes (so I could hopefully laugh at it someday). Well wouldn't you know that with the camera rolling as soon as I offered her these cute brown shoes with the little pink flower, she stuck her foot in the air as if there had never been a problem. The little stinker! We did have one relapse while on vacation last week, but it was short lived. So the shoe crisis is over.... for now.

October 19, 2009

Lexi's 2nd Birthday; 1st Party

I really wanted to throw a huge birthday bash for our sweet girl this year. This was her first birthday since being home with us and visions of girly themed party favors danced through my head... ballerinas, princesses, castles, Hello Kitties, tea parties, pink, pink and more pink. But in my heart of hearts, with everything I have read about attachment and Adoption Parenting within the first year home, I was concerned about overwhelming our birthday girl.

So we went the quiet family party route with scrumptious cupcakes and a pretty party dress! As it turned out, Lexi loved all the attention, was a pro at opening presents, blowing out candles, and diving into her pink cupcake face first. So look out next September, there will be a pinkalicious party going on at the Abraham house!!!
She is LOVING the pink cupcake!

The Birthday Girl - Two Years Old!


Born to ride!

She loves her Tinkerbell purse from Auntie Bunner and Uncle Michael



She also got a puzzle that makes animals sounds and a talking tea pot from Nana.


This is the ice-cream stacking toy that helped teach Lexi her colors.
Nolan enjoyed it too!



Nana joined Lexi for a little birthday party at school.

It was so cute seeing all her classmates in those silly birthday hats.


This was Lexi on her first birthday.
We sure were missing her and, at that point, we had no idea when we would get to see her again. We made cupcakes and sang happy birthday to her photo here in TN. The ceramic angel in this photo is a keepsake from my grandmother's house. It winds up to play the Happy Birthday song - and has been a tradition for as long as I can remember.

Since I couldn't post a photo of Lexi's cute little face online (because our adoption was not final yet), I also included a Russian chocolate bar in her birthday photo. The little girl on wrapper looked so much like Lexi's photos from Trip One. I'll have to post the comparison photos so you can see what I'm talking about. Oh, and the chocolate was delish!

I doubt they had any sort of celebration at the orphanage, but a caregiver was kind enough to dress her up take these photos with the disposable camera we left. For that, I am very grateful.

This year Lexi's birthday was a joyous occasion and each year is only going to get better! We love you Baby Girl!

October 2, 2009

10 Months

Has it really been a month since my last post? Wowzer, I have some catching up to do! One consequence of the kids going to school is that I have to drag myself out of bed at 5:45 am each morning... which means that I must actually go to bed at a decent hour... which has really cut into my late night blogging time.

Lexi's 10th month with us is going to be an exciting one. She became a Terrific Two on September 18th! She loves to watch her brothers play soccer and runs up and down the field sidelines cheering, "Go, Go, Go!" She has figured that running ON the field will quickly result in being buckled into her stroller. She also loves watching Titans and Vols football on TV. I hope to get to take her to a Titans game live this season. We have a big surprise planned in a couple of weeks too!

She enjoys her little "school" and I should do a entire post on that alone. A few other updates include:

Personality: Sparkling, bubbly, almost always happy, affectionate, observant, high energy

Speech: Still not talking as much as I think she should, but she does have too many words to count. She doesn't use sign language anymore because she says all the words she used to sign. This makes me wish I had taught her more signs. She gets frustrated when we can't understand what she wants us to do. Her brothers have done an amazing job at getting her to say new words and pronounce them correctly. Some words have evolved too, like "puppies" are now "dogs" and "kitty cats" are just "cats" unless they are baby kitties. Sometimes she surprises me like when she called out "apples" in the produce section of the grocery store or when she called the deer in our front yard "cows". She may need some speech therapy in the near future. She certainly wants to talk and sometimes just makes up silly words.

Eating: She had become very picky over the summer, but then her school has been able to get her to eat just about anything for lunch or snack, which thankfully has spilled over to home. She could eat her weight in cheese, yogurt, grits or oatmeal. She also started to like cereal with milk. She'll eat most green vegetables and potatoes, but still doesn't like meat in any form or fashion. If I want to get her to eat some meat like chicken, turkey, or beef, I have to finely chop it up and mix it into mashed potatoes. I think it may be the texture because she doesn't seem to have a problem with the actual taste. Or it could be that she is "two". How does a mom know these things? She ate an entire bowl of New England Clam Chowder last night. Go figure!

Sleeping: This has never been an issue for Lexi. She goes right to bed at 8:00 pm every night and sleeps until 6:30 or 7:00 am. She would sleep in until 8:00 if we were quieter about getting the boys ready for school. Every night before bed, she MUST have hugs and kisses from everyone in the house, which we are more than happy to give. She still sleeps in our room, next to my side of the bed. She has started climbing out of bed in the mornings all by herself. Her room is so far from our room that I am going to just move her toddler bed to our room and pack up of the little crib she has been sleeping in since she came home last December. At school, she sleeps on a cot and stays put during nap time, so I am hoping that will hold true at home too.

Motor Skills: Lexi can jump with both feet off the ground, stand on one leg like a pelican, run like the wind, she tries to peddle a trike, she can do forward rolls, swim across the spa tub, climb the rock wall on the play set, hang upside down on monkey bars, and so much more. And she is still the most flexible child I've ever met. I really see gymnastics in her future.

Shoes: This is our biggest challenge bar none. She will only, and I mean ONLY, wear those %@!$ (sorry) pink Mary Jane Crocks. It is getting harder and harder to squeeze her foot in them and it's getting colder outside, and they do not match any of her Fall wardrobe. But to even suggest another pair of shoes results in a full-blown, screaming, crying, rolling on the floor, throw the other pair of shoes across the room, temper tantrum. I only have found one pair of shoes that she will even allow to grace her shoe drawer. But she doesn't want to actually wear them. The one time I managed to wrangle them on her, she walked around the house picking her feet up like a cat wearing socks, crying her eyes out too. Any suggestions out there? Please? Pretty Please?

Misc.: Lexi loves band aides and bugs loves her. Because she is so active and enjoys being outside so much, there is no shortage of bug bites or boo boos to keep up with her bandaide obsession. The current favorite is Hello Kitty, but any type will do, including race cars, soccer balls, Sponge Bob, or just plain old boring brown ones.

She knows all her colors and can say the word for each color pretty clearly. She adores babies and is showing more interest in playing with her dolls. She can count to five, but sometimes skips number four. She can tell you that she is "2" and tries to hold up two fingers. She must have her purse every time she leaves the house. Her favorite finger games are "Where is Thumbkin?" and "Itsy Bitsy Spider". She likes Elmo and Mickey Mouse.

As usual, there is so much more that I could say about our sweet girl, but alas, my blogging time has come to an end. In just two more months, we will celebrate our one year Family Day! After the one year mark, I will be closing this blog and creating a new family blog. Although I have always included the entire family in this blog, it's purpose was to record memories about our journey to Russia for our daughter. For any readers who are just starting the process or are right in the middle of the seemingly never-ending waiting, I just want to remind you that once your child is home, time will go so quickly and all the paperwork and waiting will become a distant memory. Did that even happen? Hasn't Lexi just always been with us from day one? Seriously!

Adoption was just one chapter of our family's life book. The new blog will pick up with the next chapter right where this blog leaves off. I sincerely hope to be able to keep it updated more regularly. I need to figure out how to make it look all cool and trendy and I should probably have a contest for a new name. Hmmm, I'll give that some thought and maybe put up a poll or something.


If any of the "Littlest Tsarina" readers would like to leave a special message for Lexi or the rest of us, I'd really appreciate it. You have until December 10th and then I am going to send this blog to the printer. The new blog will roll out by the New Year!


Happy Fall Ya'll

September 2, 2009

9 Months

Lexi has been with us for 9 months! She is more delightful everyday! When she first came home last December, lots of people asked me if I was enjoying finally having a girl. I said it was fun playing dress up with her, but truth be known, having spent the first 14 months of her life in an orphanage, Lexi was still very much like a 6-9 month old b.a.b.y. She wasn't walking or talking, ate mostly baby food, could care less about dolls or anything girly, and she generally didn't have an opinion about anything. Except for changing her diapers and remembering which way to wipe, it wasn't much different from taking care of my boys when they were babies.

Well, I can tell you now ALL that has changed. And, YES, we are unequivocally having fun with our little girl. And, just for the record, I think boys are easier. Lexi is talking up a storm, loves hugs and kisses (insists on them), loves babies of all shapes and sizes (even more so if they have four legs), loves shoes, clothes, purses, princesses, crowns, etc., and she has very strong opinions about everything!

Who knew girls could be so full of drama?

Okay, besides my brother and sisters (with my 11 nieces).


Just when I think I it can't get any better, it miraculously does.
We all thank God for her everyday!

August 24, 2009

Our Princess

I don't even have words to describe how much I love these photos of our Lexi. Bloodworth Photography did an amazing job! Lexi had so much fun twirling around in her long dress and then pushing the teddy bears around in the old fashion stroller. She was such a little whirlwind in the studio, so it is even more amazing how well the photographer was able to capture her sweet expressions.








Thanks, Bryan, for letting me share a few of these beautiful photos on my blog.
Tot's Day Thursday is phenomenal. We'll definitely be back!

You can see more of Byran's work on the Bloodworth Photography Facebook page.

August 21, 2009

Favorite Foto Friday


Nolan being very silly with a cherry tomato.
We needed a little comic relief this week!

August 14, 2009

Wall of Fame


My grandparents had a "Wall of Fame". It was in the front hall of their old house. My grandmother framed photos of the five grandchildren (my brother, three sisters and myself) at ages 1, Kindergarten, High School Senior, and College Senior. There was a such a sense of accomplishment when you got to add your next photo to the wall. (I'm sure a few family members were wondering if my college photo would ever make it to the wall.)

Martin and I loved the idea and decided to do the same thing for our kids. We started with Preston by framing his birth announcement along with his 3 month old photo. At that time, we had no idea that we would eventually have five kids, but whenever Micheal's would have a sale on frames, we stocked up on the same frame so we could complete our own family's Wall of Fame. We now have enough frames in storage for all five kiddos until they are married.

Martin also does all of our custom framing... saves a lot of money, but we have to wait until he has time. Yeah, that long. Nolan finally convinced Martin that it was about time for his Kindergarten Graduation photo to make it up. So while he was working on Nolan's frame, Martin finally found a few spare minutes to frame Lexi's first photo for the Wall of Fame. They were both very proud to see their smiling faces on the Wall of Fame!

I love that we finally got to use the pink background mat. Lexi's announcement includes her birth and adoption information. (In case you are wondering...) We never actually mailed the announcements because we were already overwhelmed by the generosity and support of our friends and family surrounding Lexi's arrival home. My church hosted a baby shower just 2 weeks later. I didn't want to send out announcements and have people feel like they needed to send another gift. We were feeling so tremendously blessed! And still are.

Since we do not have any photos of Lexi at 3 months old (to match the boys) Martin and I debated about which photo to use: (a) her referral photo which is the youngest photo we have at 7 months; (b) a photo from last summer when we met her at 10 months; (c) the professional Christmas photos taken after she had been home a couple of weeks; or (d) her Celebrating Adoption photo taken when she had been home for 3 months. We went with option (d) because we like the connection with the boys -- all the photos are of our kids when they had been with us (by birth or adoption) for 3 months. The fact that her red Christmas dress clashed with the pink mat had nothing to do with it. ;0)


So there it, in all its glory, the Abraham Hall of Fame! It's exciting to watch our Wall of Fame grow, but at the same time, it's sad that my babies are growing up so fast. Time flies when you are having fun and loving life!

They are a bit crooked in this photo, but I promise they are level in real life.

The photos include "3 month plus Birth/Adoption Announcement" and "Kindergarten Graduation with program". Next, will be "High School Senior" and then "College Senior". Our ceilings are high enough that we could do "Wedding" after that, but you'd have to strain your neck to see them and I'm sure Martin and I will be too old to climb up a latter by then.

P.S. I just had new professional photos taken of Lexi this week and they turned out phenomenal. She had so much fun and the photographer really captured her vibrant personality. I can't wait until they are ready!